October 31, 2020

I got drunk at my birthday do and my husband won’t even speak to me now

I got drunk at my birthday do and my husband won’t even speak to me now

DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT drunk at my birthday do and my husband won’t even speak to me now.

We have always had a very strong relationship. I am a guy of 33, he is 42.

I got drunk at my birthday do and my husband won’t even speak to me now

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I got drunk at my birthday do and my husband won’t even speak to me nowCredit: Alamy

I like a drink more than he does.

He organised a birthday get-together for me with four friends but warned me beforehand not to overdo it.

That upset me, as it made feel under scrutiny.

The evening was a great success but I got drunk after our friends had left and shouted about how he tries to control my life.

I don’t know why I said it. He encourages me – and I told him so when I apologised.

I keep saying I love him but he’s barely speaking to me. If I ask him how he is, he says: “Fine.” End of conversation.

Do I keep saying sorry or wait for him to come round?

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Tell your husband silence clearly isn’t healing his hurt feelings and you need to communicate.

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